Lowenstein, Lowenstein
Feb. 4th, 2002 09:52 amThis weekend was celebratory honoring of the insitution of brunch. In that, I had it twice. Once at Juan's apartment with his lovely roommate and friends who are too nice for words and can occasionally make a socially shell-shocked person nervous ("he seems a little TOO nice, if you know what I mean....") but I've gotten better at getting over it and just enjoying the company of pleasant strangers and wholesome conversations about overseas travel and good Colombian restaurants while eating crepes with nutella and raspberries.
On Sunday I had brunch a second time at Differently Paced Coworkers apartment, a sort of celebration of her birthday the day before. Despite the almost-intoxicating (and not in a good way) presence of 30something lesbians, I had a nice time. I previously mistook the atmosphere for being overly white, partly because I was influenced by L__ complaining of her experience of being asked numerous times whether she had made the tamales herself. But not everyone knows it takes 10 pairs of hand and 20 hours of labor to make tamales. And looking back, I realized that out of the 11 people there, one woman was Indian, two were Middle Eastern (one woman Iranian, the other I can't remember correctly), one was Cuban, and one was Chicana. So L___'s characterization was NOT quite accurate. Far be it from this white boy to tell her what did or didn't happen, but I also don't want to typecast the entire brunch atmosphere either.
( this turned into the longest post ever )
On Sunday I had brunch a second time at Differently Paced Coworkers apartment, a sort of celebration of her birthday the day before. Despite the almost-intoxicating (and not in a good way) presence of 30something lesbians, I had a nice time. I previously mistook the atmosphere for being overly white, partly because I was influenced by L__ complaining of her experience of being asked numerous times whether she had made the tamales herself. But not everyone knows it takes 10 pairs of hand and 20 hours of labor to make tamales. And looking back, I realized that out of the 11 people there, one woman was Indian, two were Middle Eastern (one woman Iranian, the other I can't remember correctly), one was Cuban, and one was Chicana. So L___'s characterization was NOT quite accurate. Far be it from this white boy to tell her what did or didn't happen, but I also don't want to typecast the entire brunch atmosphere either.
( this turned into the longest post ever )