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Okay. One more time. I'll keep at it until everyone gets it right. I'm not giving up on you cause I'm not giving up on me!
from HERE
ten ways to tokenize or alienate a non-white person around you
(or, ten examples of the racism we witness on a regular basis)
by basil and billie--with a little help from our friends.
1- walk up to that black girl you barely know in the co-op and say "what do you think of the new (insert hip-hop artist here) album."
2- ask one of the only arabs in your community to write the article for your newspaper on the situation in palestine.
2a- then, after they write it, take their research, re-write the article and sign your name to it.
3- in a big group of many activists, say "how can we bring more people of color into our struggle."
4- in a big group of many activists, say "black people don't have the time to care about trees".
5- go up to the Makah woman at the unlearning racism workshop and say "I saw a program about Crazy Horse on PBS, he did alot for your people."
6- act like the only people of non-white ancestry in your community are the ones visible to you. 6a- assume that light skinned people around you are white without ever knowing their ancestry.
7- talk about race as if the only groups are black and white.
7a- talk about race as if the only groups are black, white and hispanic.
7b- talk about race as if the only groups are black, white, hispanic and asian.
7c- talk about race as if the only groups are black, white, hispanic, asian and native american.
8- picture a violent, irrational arab everytime the word "terrorist" is mentioned. ignore the arabs who do not fit into this stereotype.
9- look to a non-white person in the room everytime racism is brought up.
9a- make sure they have the last and most defining word on the subject.
9b- sympathetically and silently agree with everything they say.
9c- thank them profusely.
10- fearfully avoid assertive non-white people in your community.
And Raybear would like to add a number 11 way for white folks to alienate non-white folks: start any sentence with "That's not racist, because __________" or "I'm not into being politically correct."
Lather. Rinse. Repeat. And repeat. And repeat.
(And go HERE for tools for white guys (and grrls) working for social change.)
from HERE
ten ways to tokenize or alienate a non-white person around you
(or, ten examples of the racism we witness on a regular basis)
by basil and billie--with a little help from our friends.
1- walk up to that black girl you barely know in the co-op and say "what do you think of the new (insert hip-hop artist here) album."
2- ask one of the only arabs in your community to write the article for your newspaper on the situation in palestine.
2a- then, after they write it, take their research, re-write the article and sign your name to it.
3- in a big group of many activists, say "how can we bring more people of color into our struggle."
4- in a big group of many activists, say "black people don't have the time to care about trees".
5- go up to the Makah woman at the unlearning racism workshop and say "I saw a program about Crazy Horse on PBS, he did alot for your people."
6- act like the only people of non-white ancestry in your community are the ones visible to you. 6a- assume that light skinned people around you are white without ever knowing their ancestry.
7- talk about race as if the only groups are black and white.
7a- talk about race as if the only groups are black, white and hispanic.
7b- talk about race as if the only groups are black, white, hispanic and asian.
7c- talk about race as if the only groups are black, white, hispanic, asian and native american.
8- picture a violent, irrational arab everytime the word "terrorist" is mentioned. ignore the arabs who do not fit into this stereotype.
9- look to a non-white person in the room everytime racism is brought up.
9a- make sure they have the last and most defining word on the subject.
9b- sympathetically and silently agree with everything they say.
9c- thank them profusely.
10- fearfully avoid assertive non-white people in your community.
And Raybear would like to add a number 11 way for white folks to alienate non-white folks: start any sentence with "That's not racist, because __________" or "I'm not into being politically correct."
Lather. Rinse. Repeat. And repeat. And repeat.
(And go HERE for tools for white guys (and grrls) working for social change.)
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13. Going up to a black girl and saying, "oooh, can I touch your hair?"
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Wrong.
Nuh uh.
Bzzzt.
Try again.
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Correct in whose eyes?
"Politically correct" is often such a bullshit term.
What's "correct" about American politics, anyway?
Not much.
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"now i'm not racist, but __::insert blatantly racist statement here::_______"
i dunno, man. i feel sometimes like i need a 200-level course for overcoming racism. like, i feel like i struggle with growing up in a racist society and how that feeds into my own racism like every day--but on the other hand, i'm not stupid. i know how to treat humans like humans. i know that i don't have the right to assume i know about a person's identity/race/culture, and i definitely don't have the right to make unsolicited comments on or feel like i have some ownership over another person's identity. i know how to shut up.
on the other hand, i feel crushed by the weight of all of it. i end up feeling paralyzed by the assumptions i've been brought up by society to have (and while i can know that such assumptions are bullshit, that doesn't mean that i don't know what they are supposed to be), by the assumptions i assume people have about me, by what i assume people assume i am assuming. (whee, that word is fun to type!) i think i think too much.
does this make any sense?
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I wanna add! I wanna add!
1) Realize that becoming an anti-racist white is a life-long project. If you feel that you have done or know all you need to know, you are wrong.
2) Do not go to people of color and instruct them to tell you about racism and how it has affected them. It is not the job or responsibility of people of color to tell you about that which you already know about if only from a place of privilege.
3) Listening to rap, r&b, neosoul, soul and other musical expressions birthed from Black culture does not make you "down" or "cool".
4) Do not expect people of color to trust you because you are "an individual" -- that is merely another way of saying "because I'm white".
5) Dysconscious racism is real so listen up when a person of color actually takes the time to challenge and call you out on it. Learn, don't defend.
6) Racism is not a philosophy. It doesn't even mean you are a bad person. It is a system based on the socially constructed premise of "race" where the dominant culture have privilege because of being white and the dominanted cultures do not. You _are_ racist and that's ok because it isn't your fault. Only once pointed out, it is up to you whether you return to the matrix or carry forth.
7) Racism is not the same thing as bigotry or discrimination. Racial prejudice + power = racism. Reverse racism is a dream. The only reverse racism is really classism where richer whites subject poor whites as if people of color with a slight advantage.
8) White people compose a small part of the world. The world is over-whelming composed of people of color. Remember this the next time you go to say the word "minority" as you and your kind are the true minorities in a world-wide sense.
9) There is no template for people of any culture, especially Black people. We are as varied and diverse as any. Yes, there are some who are white-identified and some who are Black-identified, but all express Black culture in some ways that might not be readily apparent. Do not subject people of color to your racist script that says they are this kind of person and are interested in these kinds of things.
10) Work on recognizing your whiteness and the millions of things your whiteness does for you. Then, betray it.
11) Being a party to other systems of oppression does not mean that you do not perpetuate racism. In other words, being GBLT does not mean you "understand" racism. Your skin is still white and you receive the privileges of those with white skin. Trite, but serious.
12) Insist on not allowing whiteness to maintain its position as "normative" and "default." White people are not without culture, indeed, they aren't truly individuals at all. As a white person, you belong to a group of people while you are still a person.
13) Do not make spaces where there are people of color the only spaces where you talk about racism. It is most needed in your community around other white people. If you want to help eliminate racism, start eliminating it around you and in those spaces in which the voices of people of color are received as impositions and "chip-on-the-shoulder" and "angry".
14) Do not assume that anti-racism is the depth of interest to people of color. There are other things that concern us. Anti-racism is a way of living, not theory to be bantered about like a beach ball at a Sunday Brunch.
That's all I can think of at the moment.
Peace,
Quentin
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