non-monogamy is something that i (and therefore riley, conjointedly) have considered, but don't know if i could handle. i mean, i could most likely handle being able to see more than one person, but i don't know if i could handle riley doing it and that's unfair to him. i decided not to undertake any kind of secondary relationhip until i was at the point wherein i felt as though i could recriprocate. and i think that works for us.
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Date: 2002-06-04 08:27 pm (UTC)non-monogamy is something that i (and therefore riley, conjointedly) have considered, but don't know if i could handle. i mean, i could most likely handle being able to see more than one person, but i don't know if i could handle riley doing it and that's unfair to him. i decided not to undertake any kind of secondary relationhip until i was at the point wherein i felt as though i could recriprocate. and i think that works for us.
it's good to hear all sides of it. thank you.