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fear of femmes
By dylan
9/24/01
I used to be femme. That sounds weird, to put it that way, cuz really if I was ever femme, I'd still be femme. So I guess I should say I used to try to be femme. Because in the small towns I made home through my late teens and early twenties, if you were a queer girl and you wanted butch girls, you best get yourself into a tiny dress and big hair. And jesus god, did I want butch girls.
What I couldn't explain was how I wanted butch girls, wanted them in more complicated and messy ways than "me femme, you butch". Sure, I often wanted them to pull me tight into their arms, make me feel small and soft, tell me how good I smell, how nice my tits look in that top. But sometimes I wanted to press flat chest to flat chest, push my hard-on against hers, feel teeth tease at the back of my shorn head. Let me be feh to her butch. All the time I thought I was femme, turns out I'm just a bi-dyke faggot.
I understand the attraction of femininity; I like to look at the made-up girls. I appreciate the time it takes them to look that way, I know they do it cause it makes them feel good and slippery strong in their skin, I know they want eyes on them. I understand. But I don't wanna fuck them.
I can't fuck them. Well jesus, I can, and I have, but it was never a good idea.
So there's this girl who's had two beers and now she feels brave. And her questions about the girls I've been with get more specific, more awkward. And my stomach is turning, and I'm looking at the door. But there's this girl in-between the door and me. A girl with big tits and red lips, short skirt and impractical shoes. And this girl wants me, and doesn't everybody want to be wanted, but I don't want this girl. But she's had two beers and she's between me and the door, so when she asks "Do you think I'm attractive?", I say "yes", because she is. And she sits down on the bed next to me, and I realize she didn't really ask the question she
thinks I just answered. I wanna say, "No fair, you shoulda asked 'are you attracted to me?', and then you wouldn't be sitting on this bed, looking at me with that look on your face, waiting for me to be the dyke."
And my friend says, "If you're queer, shouldn't you just like girls?" I don't know what to say. Especially when there was that time I found a butch willing to slip into spikey heels and black eyeliner, and I took her out to show her off, my trannygirl tripping and towering above me. Trans means passing from one thing to another, right? What's the word for just passing and passing and passing?
And my friend says, "Have you ever thought about kissing me?" And then I'm pushing her panties over her ass watching her make porn star faces so I don't have to say "no". Cause doesn't everybody want to be wanted? And if I'm queer, shouldn't I just like girls, all the pretty available girls who want me? But what about the girl with the cock, what about the boy with the tits. . .I'm still queer right? I'm still allowed that desire, right?
I watch straight porn, hate the "bisexual" scenes, when the girls threaten each other's cunts with talon nails. But I think I'd like to fuck them if they'd see me as a boy with a big dick. Think I'd like to have them suck me off, think I'd like to own a girl's mouth that way. Get on your knees, turn around and bend over, don't move, take it. And part of me thinking they're whores for putting cocks in their mouths, and me liking that thought. Think the kind of thoughts (hurt her, humiliate her, force her) that make me afraid of men. Feel ashamed. Real confused.
And the butch with the studded belt tells me she likes femmes. Says it in a way that tells me I'm not what she likes.
fear of femmes
By dylan
9/24/01
I used to be femme. That sounds weird, to put it that way, cuz really if I was ever femme, I'd still be femme. So I guess I should say I used to try to be femme. Because in the small towns I made home through my late teens and early twenties, if you were a queer girl and you wanted butch girls, you best get yourself into a tiny dress and big hair. And jesus god, did I want butch girls.
What I couldn't explain was how I wanted butch girls, wanted them in more complicated and messy ways than "me femme, you butch". Sure, I often wanted them to pull me tight into their arms, make me feel small and soft, tell me how good I smell, how nice my tits look in that top. But sometimes I wanted to press flat chest to flat chest, push my hard-on against hers, feel teeth tease at the back of my shorn head. Let me be feh to her butch. All the time I thought I was femme, turns out I'm just a bi-dyke faggot.
I understand the attraction of femininity; I like to look at the made-up girls. I appreciate the time it takes them to look that way, I know they do it cause it makes them feel good and slippery strong in their skin, I know they want eyes on them. I understand. But I don't wanna fuck them.
I can't fuck them. Well jesus, I can, and I have, but it was never a good idea.
So there's this girl who's had two beers and now she feels brave. And her questions about the girls I've been with get more specific, more awkward. And my stomach is turning, and I'm looking at the door. But there's this girl in-between the door and me. A girl with big tits and red lips, short skirt and impractical shoes. And this girl wants me, and doesn't everybody want to be wanted, but I don't want this girl. But she's had two beers and she's between me and the door, so when she asks "Do you think I'm attractive?", I say "yes", because she is. And she sits down on the bed next to me, and I realize she didn't really ask the question she
thinks I just answered. I wanna say, "No fair, you shoulda asked 'are you attracted to me?', and then you wouldn't be sitting on this bed, looking at me with that look on your face, waiting for me to be the dyke."
And my friend says, "If you're queer, shouldn't you just like girls?" I don't know what to say. Especially when there was that time I found a butch willing to slip into spikey heels and black eyeliner, and I took her out to show her off, my trannygirl tripping and towering above me. Trans means passing from one thing to another, right? What's the word for just passing and passing and passing?
And my friend says, "Have you ever thought about kissing me?" And then I'm pushing her panties over her ass watching her make porn star faces so I don't have to say "no". Cause doesn't everybody want to be wanted? And if I'm queer, shouldn't I just like girls, all the pretty available girls who want me? But what about the girl with the cock, what about the boy with the tits. . .I'm still queer right? I'm still allowed that desire, right?
I watch straight porn, hate the "bisexual" scenes, when the girls threaten each other's cunts with talon nails. But I think I'd like to fuck them if they'd see me as a boy with a big dick. Think I'd like to have them suck me off, think I'd like to own a girl's mouth that way. Get on your knees, turn around and bend over, don't move, take it. And part of me thinking they're whores for putting cocks in their mouths, and me liking that thought. Think the kind of thoughts (hurt her, humiliate her, force her) that make me afraid of men. Feel ashamed. Real confused.
And the butch with the studded belt tells me she likes femmes. Says it in a way that tells me I'm not what she likes.