I'm a vampire.
Nov. 7th, 2002 10:52 amFuture Bible Heroes were fabulous and as soon as I have money I'll be buying their album. New!Mark was cool too. He might be mancub material, but only
grocerygetter can really make that determination. I have a major complex about him for several reasons:
1) the Joe Murphy thing. Part of the Joe Murphy complex isn't so much about Joe Murphy himself (or in this case New!Mark), but more about me and how I feel around them. Major friend crush feelings, trying to think of the best thing to make him (or them) like me. I don't mind a hint of that -- it makes me step up my game, and all the good people in my life have made me feel that way in the beginning -- but I worry it will go too much over the edge cause distress and eventually obsession. I'm an obsessive type. I don't need such agitation. But I think I'm also older and wiser and less susceptible to it the way I was in my younger years. Ha.
2) he's tall and lanky (read: skinny). i automatically believe he will in no way be attracted to me. which isn't actually the end of the world because even though he was cute, i wasn't in immediate jump-your-bones state of mind. frankly i would be cool with just being buddies and hanging out. but it will still give me a body image complex at times. tall skinny boys are the final frontier for me. probably because there are few in my life who proved themselves to be open-minded about body image and desire.
3) New!Mark is that guy in college that you think is gay initially than shortly after realize he's straight, even very straight, and later laugh at the fact that you thought he was gay just because he's artsy and nerdy and lanky. He's Gay-Straight. Except, you know, he's not, because he answers personal ad in men-seeking-men sections in the local paper. I can't believe he's gay, for some reason.
So after the concert I was rehearsing what to say on the walk back to the train that would convey the fact that I like him without being creepy or overbearing and also reassure him that even if he doesn't want to fuck or whatever I still want to go to shows and movies with him. But as soon as I stepped outside he said, "yeah, I gotta go to this thing."
No! I was getting the brush-off!
Actually it was some work event he claimed he had to make an appearance at, but he then said directly, "i want to go out with you again." we complimented our taste in music and I mentioned wanting to go to facets movies and he whipped out his membership card. So he smiled and we shook hands and I walked home. I think he might like me a little.
Oh, and the funniest thing said to me yesterday which has nothing to do with New!Mark.
Roberto mentions a hot page boy in City Hall who looks like Freddie Prinze Jr.
Me: "We should go to California and stalk Sarah Michelle Gellar and Freddie Prinze Jr. I could keep Sarah occupied while you pounce on Freddie. I mean, I don't really think she's that hot or anything, but at least I could say I fucked Buffy."
Roberto: (long pause.) "You know, Sarah Michelle Gellar really is the Lindsay Wagner of her generation."
I laughed long and hard.
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1) the Joe Murphy thing. Part of the Joe Murphy complex isn't so much about Joe Murphy himself (or in this case New!Mark), but more about me and how I feel around them. Major friend crush feelings, trying to think of the best thing to make him (or them) like me. I don't mind a hint of that -- it makes me step up my game, and all the good people in my life have made me feel that way in the beginning -- but I worry it will go too much over the edge cause distress and eventually obsession. I'm an obsessive type. I don't need such agitation. But I think I'm also older and wiser and less susceptible to it the way I was in my younger years. Ha.
2) he's tall and lanky (read: skinny). i automatically believe he will in no way be attracted to me. which isn't actually the end of the world because even though he was cute, i wasn't in immediate jump-your-bones state of mind. frankly i would be cool with just being buddies and hanging out. but it will still give me a body image complex at times. tall skinny boys are the final frontier for me. probably because there are few in my life who proved themselves to be open-minded about body image and desire.
3) New!Mark is that guy in college that you think is gay initially than shortly after realize he's straight, even very straight, and later laugh at the fact that you thought he was gay just because he's artsy and nerdy and lanky. He's Gay-Straight. Except, you know, he's not, because he answers personal ad in men-seeking-men sections in the local paper. I can't believe he's gay, for some reason.
So after the concert I was rehearsing what to say on the walk back to the train that would convey the fact that I like him without being creepy or overbearing and also reassure him that even if he doesn't want to fuck or whatever I still want to go to shows and movies with him. But as soon as I stepped outside he said, "yeah, I gotta go to this thing."
No! I was getting the brush-off!
Actually it was some work event he claimed he had to make an appearance at, but he then said directly, "i want to go out with you again." we complimented our taste in music and I mentioned wanting to go to facets movies and he whipped out his membership card. So he smiled and we shook hands and I walked home. I think he might like me a little.
Oh, and the funniest thing said to me yesterday which has nothing to do with New!Mark.
Roberto mentions a hot page boy in City Hall who looks like Freddie Prinze Jr.
Me: "We should go to California and stalk Sarah Michelle Gellar and Freddie Prinze Jr. I could keep Sarah occupied while you pounce on Freddie. I mean, I don't really think she's that hot or anything, but at least I could say I fucked Buffy."
Roberto: (long pause.) "You know, Sarah Michelle Gellar really is the Lindsay Wagner of her generation."
I laughed long and hard.
( click here to see The Bionic Woman! )