raybear: (red)
The only slightly sad thing about winter coming to a close is that I've gotten pretty good this season at creating soups from scratch on the fly. Since yesterday was chilly and grey and rainy, I thought I'd make use of the last grip of winter and the two heads of broccoli in the fridge and made a big bowl of Cream of Broccoli Chicken Pasta with Gorgonzola. Or whatever. I'm much better at making soups than naming them.

It was delicious and we ate it for dinner while watching Stranger Than Fiction which is maybe my new Favorite Movie Ever. Which, is different than the Best Movie Ever, because I'm still not entirely convinced about the construct of the ending -- if it's flawed, or if it's just the best it could be given the premise, or what -- but it doesn't really matter because the rest of the movie makes me so happy for so many reasons. The premise, every actor, the visuals, the humor, the romance. And it takes place entirely in Chicago, though they don't say its Chicago because they wanted it to be EveryCity which is kinda dumb if you're going to show the Picasso sculpture and have a prominent extra on a bus behind Will Ferrell reading the Chicago Tribune. But whatever, I love movies that take place in Chicago. And I loved this movie especially. It is hilarious and sweet and dry and its about death and living and fictional narratives and as an added bonus has Buster from Arrested Development.

Yesterday afternoon while playing hooky and waiting for DYA to come home, I randomly thought, "I could use a good shag" which is sort of funny for my brain to produce that, given I'm not British, nor have I been consuming copious amounts of British-influenced materal. After watching the movie last night, I ended up having a great shag, and then decided, I think maybe I like that word. It feels the same as saying "a fuck" but one can say it in mixed company, it has a more endearing effect to it, while still somewhat onomatopoetic and a little crass/dirty.

I've been up since 6:30 am. Maybe I should this more, because I've done lots of puttering around but it's still only 9 am. I should get it together quickly though and leave the house to get my required things done, before I unwittingly slip into the blackhole.
raybear: (scream)
I work around the corner from one of the friendliest, chattiest employees of this firm. This is not without its disadvantages. Actually, I'm not sure there really that many advantages. Mostly I just let it go, but sometimes on my way to my own desk, I just am not quite yet up for hearing "Happy Thursday!" or "Happy Friday!" or "Happy Wednesday!" or....you get the idea. She is exceedingly sweet, of course, but that doesn't really soften the blow when exceedingly problematic (or just straight up fcked up) things come out of her mouth. Mostly I am incredulously amused, say for example, when during the discussion about the Oscars, her opinion of The Departed was "everyone just got shot in the head!" or that she didn't see Pan's Labyrinth because it has subtitles and she doesn't like to read when watching a movie, or that she saw Little Miss Sunshine four times and loved it because "it had everything! the overweight kid, the cranky old guy, the homosexuals, the strained marriage! it had something everyone could connect to!" and when she said 'homosexuals' I think she sort of gestured towards me.

Yesterday I was less amused when she told a story about people on the Metra freaking out and calling the conductor, who in turn, called the police and bomb squad, because a man was on board, praying and chanting aloud. A man, who in her story, she called "an Arab" but pronounced "AY-rab", like rhymes with Ahab the fcking captain in Moby Dick. I nearly spit out my tea.
"Excuse me? An AY-rab?"
She quickly backpedaled and said, 'I'm sorry, I'm not ever politically correct!'
"It's not about being politically correct. It's about being accurate."
'Oh, ok, I mean...Arabian. He's Arabian.'

Um, I'm going to take a guess and say he probably wasn't Arabian.

At least the story was about how she was appalled at the behavior of the overreaction about a person simply trying to pray. In this place, I will take the tiniest of blessings available.

Which is why today, when she talked about going on vacation next week to south Florida, and described Key West as the place with lots of great boutiques, expensive but good restaurants, and 'gays', I almost deemed it progress. Except, I don't know. I kinda like the word homosexuals.

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