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[raybear]

I'm having some sort of weird hormone surge...in the past half an hour or so, I suddenly feel horny as hell and have the strong urge to fck. !! Where did this come from? it's unclear. and it's not exactly good timing either.

But this is making me think about a question I've had on my mind lately. For those who have lived with partners before, how did you negotiate masturbating? I mean, other than the obvious of talking about it, which I plan on doing.

Hmm...maybe I need to go hang out in the second stall now. Too bad I actually have work to do! Maybe it will pass as mysteriously and quickly as it showed up....

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the master of co-habitation masturbation

[ridleymae.livejournal.com]

ray-
with the three ppl i've dated and lived with over the years the following scenarios occured:

we never talked about it in terms of negociation
i woke up to find them masturbating next to me
we would do it when the other person wasn't home (unless of course, for mutal fun)
or directly say, "i'm gonna beat off- can you give me a few?"

Rids

[jdcatron.livejournal.com]

Is there any way other than talking about it?

My usual trip (if we share a bed, which is not necessarily a given) is that if the other person is uncomfortable they can wander off or I can lock myself in the bathroom.

And vice versa...though for some reason my partners have tended to prefer more comfortable spots :P

Of course, the fact that I can masturbate to orgasm silently in a public bathroom stall in five minutes or less helps this (not because I often live in places with public bathroom stalls, but because that sort of, erm, talent, transfers well :P )

JD

[hissyfit.livejournal.com]

:D yay horny!

i love to masturbate, even when i'm with someone. i can just make myself come in ways that other people can't (and other people can make me come in ways that i can't, so it works out nicely when co-habitating). anyway... to the point... if you need to wack it and feel uncomfortable talking about it with your co-habitator, just take a bathroom break. and if you're at work, you can do the same thing. i (very unfortunately) live on a floor in a dorm that has only public bathrooms, and i have a roommate, so i have learned to wack in semi-public. it's actually kind of exicting. :)

i have way too much sexual energy for my own good. damn.

not the whacking

[milosh.livejournal.com]

ok i wont even talk about the masturbation, i just wanted to say that i was _quite_ excited at your use of "it's unclear" -- josie says that ALL the time, and i think it's great :) she also says "apparently" a lot, which i've picked up on...

anyway, that's all. bye!