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[raybear]

I'm having some sort of weird hormone surge...in the past half an hour or so, I suddenly feel horny as hell and have the strong urge to fck. !! Where did this come from? it's unclear. and it's not exactly good timing either.

But this is making me think about a question I've had on my mind lately. For those who have lived with partners before, how did you negotiate masturbating? I mean, other than the obvious of talking about it, which I plan on doing.

Hmm...maybe I need to go hang out in the second stall now. Too bad I actually have work to do! Maybe it will pass as mysteriously and quickly as it showed up....

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[jdcatron.livejournal.com]

Is there any way other than talking about it?

My usual trip (if we share a bed, which is not necessarily a given) is that if the other person is uncomfortable they can wander off or I can lock myself in the bathroom.

And vice versa...though for some reason my partners have tended to prefer more comfortable spots :P

Of course, the fact that I can masturbate to orgasm silently in a public bathroom stall in five minutes or less helps this (not because I often live in places with public bathroom stalls, but because that sort of, erm, talent, transfers well :P )

JD